People believe you need to suffer to heal (LIE),you need to let go from your past pain,yes it is painful.
However the pain will pass,and that's the end of that,no longer carrying your emotional baggage with you.
Suffering is endless and it goes on and on and on.......
A blessing in disguise is *BULL SHIT* translation the situation is bad,and you will need to hurt and then be in self-denial by believing in your crazy beliefs.
We have justify past painful experiences by reliving them and manipulating the situation by saying it is a positive thing happening. *BULL SHIT*
Believing you need to suffer,then you will appreciate it *BULL SHIT* You will abuse it out of fear of having nothing.